Half past eleven of mid-June night, rushed to the hospital to gather on close friend’s wife delivery. Normally no need to gather on friend’s wife delivery but this case was little different and I need to be there on ad hoc duty as a supportive male member. My friend got married last year on 2nd Jan. he was the first and the only son of his loving father. He was JE in PWD, Delhi zone. Father retired two years back from head clerk position, red cross society, mother was a house wife and a strict lady, who only want the things as per her wish; so father not having the option rather than to ‘take it or lose it’. Father was a decent man who always had the policy to adjust as per time and flow with time and so he is the successful man on the earth.
He was having a tremendous pressure to have child immediately after the marriage. In our society even noble lady became a Hitler after having a daughter in low but here the daughter in low already had a Pre activated Hitler mother in law, now you can imagine the height of Hitlergiri.
And then now it was the turn of my friend to decide, weather to go with wife and do the family planning or go with mother and had a child immediately. Anyhow man always intended to go with mother in such a case and just supportive to the wife in other stuff to feel her comfortable.
Doctor were not in the hospital and nurses were on charge, sometime in-charge person acting more rudely than the real one. There was much high labor pain and she was crying like anything, nurse advice to put pressure down and stop crying. Lady’s sister (my friend’s sister in low) went to the head nurse and asked her for doctor. She replied ‘doctor will visit in an hour if the problem persists’.
Half an hour went out but nothing happens except the sound of groan and finally Doctor came, after a glimpse she instructed her nurse to get it in the operation theater for operation. And then the procedure started we were waiting outside the OT and were praying for best. Girl’s mother in low, “there will be girl child, that why pain is so much otherwise boy comes easily, I said to her to do the work but she never listens and stick on her bed rest instruction of Doctor”. What they Doctor knows, I deliver 6 babies in 10 years and know the things better than these morons.
The sound of groan raised enough to torn out the ear screen and that seems baby has come out. Nurse came out and congratulated, congratulations u got a baby girl. The face of old lady and the Hitler went off started murmuring and annoyed with every one present there.
Sister in low of my friend were little happy as she saw her sister in little comfort after the delivery, and maybe she doesn't care about baby femininity.
Nurses come to the old lady and asked for the bakshish, old lady scolded her and said what you want from us moron don’t you have the enough caliber to judge the situation, family is in the deep pain and you asking for the tip.
Other side of the ward on next bed, family were on full celebration mode there was the birth of a son and the situation were jollity, everybody celebrating and congratulating each other, calling to everyone for the news of baby.
The phone range, old lady picked up the phone and start annoying, karamjali ne tumhe aur bojh tale daal diya, beti hui hai (Unlucky girls has put u under the extra burden- u got a baby girl). Then after a while she sent phone to her daughter in low, she said “we got a baby girl”, there was a lot of sorrow and pain in her voice. Husband replied “we blessed with the gift of Lakshmi but not with the baby girl”. Really I see the face of lady it charmed and glow like full moon. It matters if your partner support against their family tradition.
This is dedicated to two Indian Rio Olympiad girls.
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